During the earthquaking days of my discovery of my husband’s homosexuality, one thought kept going through my head:
If I’d been perfect, it still wouldn’t have been enough.
My mantra
Published by Laura Lowder
I was married more than a decade to a man who is now openly homosexual. While society lauds those who come out as gay, many of them have been previously married, and we, their families, have a story of our own. Our stories, our voices, deserve to be heard and respected,too. View all posts by Laura Lowder
Surviving The Rainbow 
Yeah, I can relate. No way was anything I did ever going to be good enough. In fact, the better I was at the role of wife, the worse the abuse. The more “woman” I acted, the more he disliked me. It was a recipe for misery and not one bit of it could I change.
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This is true in most of our situations. Mine left and I have been healing and getting happier ever since.
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